Thursday, July 5, 2007

State Of Play

We have established that neither of us is happy in the marriage. We have also both stated our non-intention of leaving.

He says that it is HIS house and he won't leave it. He says that he is too old to start over again. I say that I have a right to stay in the house until DDK7 is 18.

He has said a lot of other stuff too. I sit and say nothing because there is no point.

5 comments:

ollie1976 said...

So sorry that you're going through this.
-Jen

Karoline said...

{{{{Lorna}}}}

Seahorse said...

Lorna, get a free half hour with a solicitor (if you haven't already?) and see where you'd stand legally re the house and residency with the girls.

I know you've written before about possible difficulties re the house thing but I still think it's worth asking.

Jill in CA said...

(((Lorna))) I've read your blog for a long time, although I don't often comment. I just wanted to let you know I'm thinking about you and hoping for a resolution that will leave you happy because you deserve it! It has bothered me for a long time that he treats you the way he does. I'm thinking good thoughts for you!

Brangane said...

{{{{hugs}}}}

Is he trying to get you back under his control after you spent a day with your family?

He will be nasty and then nice to get his way.